雨天

雨天，让人欢喜让人忧
喜欢雨天的，大有人在
不喜欢的也许比喜欢的来得多

绵绵的细雨
带给人忧郁的感觉
与蓝色的感觉有点相似
人总有低落的时候
当遇上这样大天气
更不容易振作起来
更容易沉醉在自己的世界里
更最适合自己独处的时候
这时候安静与孤独成了对立
安静的时候不一定孤独
孤独的时候都觉得很安静
两者的心境都不一样
一个是心理要的
一个是心理抗拒的

近来的雨天都让我想好好与自己独处
思绪都一直飘浮不定
什么时候才会乖乖的听话飘上岸？
真的很难捉摸
身边的事都一直在变
人心更是难测
不想猜疑太多
更不想理会太多
或许好好的安守本分就是我该做的事


看好了今天打天气应该可以去跑步散散心
哪知
从中午开始就一直下雨
时大时小
真得很懊恼
刚停雨不久就急着驾着小蓝去散心
天啊！！！
又开始下起绵绵细雨了
可能是心理作怪吧
明知下雨还是拼命冲着去
“不管了，跑吧！”
就这样让雨水打在我的身上跑了一圈
不管别人的眼光
不管雨水还会下多大
就这样一直淋到满足为止
心里小小的角落终于好多了

原来，雨水也可以治病的！

因为雾水的关系
整个水坝都变得格外的忧郁
因为天空的泪水盛满了它的心脏吗？
还是它也知道我的心？

纳闷的心情又回来了……
因为雨还一直下吗？

~雨天让人真得很想回家~

Someone

Perhaps there are misunderstandings between human beings
but
Because there are less interaction
Many dare not to explain to each other
Even talking to each other
but
I still want to be friend
Be a best best friend to you
As you wrote to me
I would like to let you know that
"I still care for you but in different ways!"

There are many ways to care for a friend
Especially best friend
But because
I am not kinda to express my thoughts
I seldom talk
Seldom sound out my opinions
And even
rarely to let others know my feelings
Because
I scared..
Scared that one day there will be someone sale me out again...
I dare not to try...
Even one time...
There are still secrets in my mind, heart or even soul...
I dare not to let others know...
But
You should know that
You know me from the beginning
and
You know more than others
There is nothing I can hide from you...
Even though from the time we move out
I still admit that
Admit that we are close...
Not in physically but mentally...
Even though i seldom talk with you nowadays
but i know that there are many chemical reactions happened between you and me
Because we care for each other
Care for each other from the bottom of the heart...

Friendship...
I think this is the way it should be...
Physically do not mean anything
but
What reactions happened in the mind is the most important...

Hope that our friendship never die...

This is for you...
Although they are separated but they only match with each other in this world...

Misconstrue

World is full of wondering
Take a glance on your surrounding
You will find that everyone is thinking
But
You don't know what is running in their mind
You don't know what is their next plan
You don't know what is the next word come out from them
You don't even know the person stand right in front of you is the person who hate you

Because we can't read others' mind
Because we can't predict what happen next
Because we can't make everyone like us
Because...
There are many reasons and because of the reasons
We misinterpret what we see and what had been told

When there are misconceive within people
Explanations are needed
But
Do every explanations help?
No, there are not.
However, it may fabricate another unsolvable situation.
Silence is the most suitable method to make it resolve.

People try their best to make everyone agree to their actions and decisions
They even try to sabotage others' thinking
Think before talk
Make speech short
Explain when needed
Provoke is totally forbid in conversations

Perhaps...
Writing is the better way...

Appriciate

I watched a video clip from Facebook and really touched. The video clip is about Nick Vujicic who was born without legs and arm. He was born in Melbourne, Australia, 1982. I knew him before this and never think that this video bring such big impact to my spirit. I really wish that I can listen to his talk once in my life. I like him and wish that i can become just like him. Try hard to stand up where you fell down, when you refuse to try it you will never stand up again. He gives motivation talks to students all over the world to inspire them even though there are limitations without arms and legs but he can still do what he likes and sometimes he even can do better than normal human beings. The talks that he always give always make students inspired and they will learn to live in a better way and think positively.

Every now and then i heard many people saying this kind of words and they even try to encourage and inspire others using it but does many people do inspire and change? I don't think so....

But if you start thinking what you have now and what make you happy you will realize that you are good than others who starving and people who are still searching directions and destinations for their life. And when you started to think how worst you are, please make yourself be seated and think how God treat you and why God treat you like this? Many of us always think that, "God should treat me like this." "God should treat me like that." But, did we ever think that what can we do for ourselves?

Appreciate what you have, do not ever try to ask more than what really needed. Greedy will make you sink into an unpredictable deep and dark hole. Try to achieve your goal with your own ability and do it in a manner way. Think positively in whatever conditions, there are always miracle happen when there still not the end.

You can choose:
"Bitter" or "Better"



















Nick Vujicic's Official website: http://www.attitudeisaltitude.com/index.php

札记（二）

身边发生了一些不愉快的事
虽然与我无关
可是整件事我都看在眼里，只是一直不方便说
真得很伤心
其实根本没有必要弄到这么的尴尬
只是大家一时都火遮眼
什么都不想就说出来了
根让我想不到的是，为什么无关的人要查一把嘴呢？
把事情弄得一团糟，更让身边的人更不喜欢更讨厌她的一举一动
把事情弄得一团糟就算了
糟了还要煽风点火
居心何在？
唉！！！
人……
天生就是八卦……

比任何人都还要早出来面对形形色色的人
所以
学会了很多书本上学不到的事
不管事的事就不多事
多一事，不如少一事
不管是谁，都不要帮就对了
最避忌的就是煽风点火
没烧伤自己算你走运
烧伤了不止倒霉，更可能让你少了朋友
不会再有人找你
煽风点火的人只会让你跟他又一样极端的思想
根本没有办法有自己的思考
再怎么急都好
再怎么生气都好
让自己好好的静下来
想想事情的源头
想想自己是否一直在钻牛角尖

札记（一）

突然间由冲动想把手上的事情都放下，好好地去玩一天
这个时候应该不适合吧
以我的性格或许不可能在这个时候放纵自己
写写部落格或许是唯一能让我暂时不用想太多
暂时能够面对自己的那一刻

人是可以很快乐的
每一件事都有不同的审美观
有些人觉得没有怎样
可是有的人就能够耿耿于怀的一直放在心上

小故事：
从前，有一个老和尚何一个刚剃头出家的青年和尚
来到了一条河，河上没有桥能够度过那条河，而想过去的人都必须涉水而过
河边站着一个想过去对岸的老妇人
可是河水因为昨天的一场大雨变得有点急
因为这样老妇人久久过不了对岸
老妇人看到两位和尚便向他们寻求帮助
“请问两位菩萨，能够帮帮我这个老人家渡过这条河吗？”
年轻的和尚想也不想一口就拒绝了
因为出家人不动色，也就是男女不可以有肌肤之亲
可是老和尚却走向前去把老妇人给背起来渡过河去
把老妇人放下后，他们继续上路
有很长一段时间，他们都沉默不语
年轻的和尚打破了沉默便问老和尚
“出家人是不能碰女色的，不是吗？”
老和尚
“我已经把老妇人放下了，为什么你还一直把它放在心上呢？”

对，当事人都已经放下了
为什么身边的人还以着耿耿于怀呢？
是谁把事情复杂化了？