真爱的四重境界

第一个境界：《世界上最远的距离》 泰戈尔


世界是最远的距离，不是生与死的距离，而是我站在你面前，你不知道我爱你；


The farthest distance way in the world, is not the way from birth to the end. It is when I stand in front of you, but you don't understand I love you.


世界上最远的距离，不是我站在你面前，你不知道我爱你，而是爱到痴迷，却不能说我爱你；


The farthest distance way in the world, is not when i stand in front of you, you don't know I love you. It is when my love is bewildering the soul, but I can't speak it out.


世界上最远的距离，不是我不能说我爱你，而是想你到痛彻心脾，却只能深埋心底；

The farthest distance way in the world, is not that I can't say I love you. It is after missing you deeply into my heart, I only can bury it in my heart.


世界上最远的距离，不是我不能说我想你，而是彼此相爱，却不能够在一起；


The farthest distance way in the world, is not that i can't say to you i love you. It is when we are falling in love, but we can't stay nearby.


世界上最远的距离，不是不能相爱，却不能够在一起，而是明知道真爱无敌，却装作毫不在意；

The farthest distance way in the world, is not we love each other, but can't stay together. It is we know our true love is breaking through the way, we turn a blind eye to it.


世界上最远的距离，不是树与树的距离，而是同根生长的树枝，却无法在风中相依；


So the farthest distance way in the world, is not in two distant trees. It is the same rooted branches, but can't depend on each other in the wind.


世界上最远的距离，不是树枝无法相依，而在相互了望的星星，却没有交汇的轨迹；


So the farthest distance way in the world, is not can't depend on each other in the wind. It is in the blinking stars who only can look with each other, but their trade intersect.


世界上最远的距离，不是星星之间的轨迹，而是纵然轨迹交汇，却在转瞬间无处寻觅；


So the farthest distance way in the world, is not in the blinking stars who only can look with each other. It is after the intersection, but they can't be found from then on afar.


世界上最远的距离，不是瞬间无处寻觅，而是尚未相遇，便注定无法相聚。 


So the farthest distance way in the world, is not the light that is fading away. It is the coincidence of us, is not supposed for the love.


世界上最遥远的距离，是鱼与飞鸟的距离，一个翱翔天际，一个却深潜海底。 


So the farthest distance way in the world, is the love between the fish and bird. One is flying in the sky,the other is looking upon into the sea.

第二个境界：《致橡树》舒婷


我如果爱你──

绝不像攀援的凌霄花

借你的高枝来炫耀自己

我如果爱你──

绝不学痴情的鸟儿

为绿荫重复单调的歌曲

也不止像泉源

长年送来清凉的慰藉

也不止像险峰

增加你的高度，衬托你的威仪

甚至日光

甚至春雨

不，这些都还不够！

我必须是你近旁的一株木棉

作为树的形象和你站在一起

根，紧握在地下

叶，相触在云里

每一阵风过

我们都互相致意

但没有人

听懂我们的言语

你有你的铜枝铁干

像刀、像剑

也像戟

我有我红硕的花朵

像沉重的叹息

又像英勇的火炬

我们分担寒潮、风雷、霹雳

我们共享雾霭、流岚、虹霓

仿佛永远分离

却又终身相依

这才是伟大的爱情

爱──

不仅爱你伟岸的身躯

也爱你坚持的位置，足下的土地

 第三个境界：《见与不见》 仓央嘉措活佛

你见，或者不见我

我就在那里

不悲不喜

你念，或者不念我

情就在那里

不来不去

你爱，或者不爱我

爱就在那里

不增不减

你跟，或者不跟我

我的手就在你手里

不舍不弃

来我的怀里

或者

让我住进你的心里

默然相爱

寂静欢喜

第四个境界：《当你老了》叶芝


当你老了，头发白了，睡思昏沉

炉火旁打盹，请取下这部诗歌

慢慢读，回想你过去眼神的柔和

回想它们昔日浓重的阴影

多少人爱你青春欢畅的时辰

爱慕你的美丽，假意和真心

只有一个人爱你朝圣者的灵魂

爱你衰老了的脸上痛苦的皱纹

垂下头来，在红火闪耀的炉子旁

凄然地轻轻诉说那爱情的消逝

在头顶上的山上它缓缓地踱着步子

在一群星星中间隐藏着脸庞